Love Is Never Wasted
Love is never lost or forgotten; it is preserved in our hearts. And it is always there, even if we do not think about it, even if we cover our eyes and even if a specific love no longer has any relevance in our lives or memories.
From that point of view , love never ceases to exist and has a meaning. Sometimes, however , when it is not answered in the way we need, it can cause frustration and broken hearts.
It is inevitable that it is tiring to give a lot but get very little in return . The trick is not to expect anything from anyone but ourselves. What happens happens, but not always in the form we expected or wanted.
This goes against the concept that love is the total and complete surrender to another human being. We find it difficult to understand, but it is necessary to leave this concept behind and throw away the idea of the love we see in Disney movies where “Everything I do is for you and if you leave my side, my life will be meaningless.”
There are romantic relationships that are doomed to fail from the start due to the total lack of reciprocity and gratitude. This is natural because the only way to keep love strong is to water it every day.
We must ask ourselves if we expect our partner to be, act and give love in exactly the same way we do. If so, we’re ruining our relationship and hurting ourselves. Each person is as they are and gives love in different ways.
In any case , a breakup caused by emotional dependence can give us an opportunity to work on eliminating this need and growing as human beings. Broken hearts can heal again and become copies with the ability to love without asking for anything in return.
Love is never lost, it is transformed
Not just any love, however, but the love for yourself, which also teaches you to treat others with respect and compassion. So if you want love, give love. Giving it is the best way to get it – not necessarily from others, but from yourself.
Giving your own emotions the green light is incredibly important because it gives you the chance to feel good, give love and receive love. In other words; opening your heart and giving in to your emotions prevents your heart from turning to stone. We all know that stones do not feel or suffer and that heat and cold do not matter to them. We are not stones; we are talking, feeling and thinking hearts.
Self-love is always within reach
Loving yourself is the only way for you to be able to give love to others. Basically, you will enjoy your relationship with your partner much more if you want it compared to if you need it.
This is complicated and can initially lead to many internal conflicts because our society mixes romance with emotional dependence. However, getting rid of these preconceived notions will help you revive and nurture the love for yourself and others.
