If Those Who Know You Love You … Why Are You Afraid?

Those who know you love you, so do not be afraid. Let’s do an experiment. It would have been best if you expressed the results of this experiment in percent. Sometimes too many contradictions can accumulate in your mind, and this makes it difficult for you to see the results clearly.

We will therefore help you find information more easily and understand why we all at some point become afraid of social contact and even more afraid of love.

Go back into your mind and think of all the people you have met in your life and who know you. Think of the people who have really hurt you, of the people you simply had a hard time with. Think of the people you have been indifferent to or those who have scared you. Those who have made you feel good and those who have given rise to euphoria within you.

If the last two groups of people take up a large percentage, then think about whether these feelings have been mutual. There are people in your life who love and respect you, just as you love and respect them. There are many people waiting for someone to come into their life. These people are a very good reason not to let the “bad guys” influence your quest to get to know others.

The unfortunate part is that we often endure so many blows to be transformed into a person who lives life halfway. These people live with the feeling that they have a lot to hide because someone once thought they had nothing of interest to show. But where these people did not see anything of interest, other people saw something hurtful. Is it not time to focus our attention and use a scale that is not based on fear?

Think about if you are part of the group of people who have ever had a call in the middle of the night. The kind of person someone else has told their most intimate secrets to. Someone who has been invited several times to celebrate something that another has achieved. Ask yourself if anyone continues to ask you how your life is going, even after several years have passed…

Are these people who want to meet you, even when they have to change appointments and come home late to do so. If you have such a group of people who made you answer “yes” to any of these questions, you are in luck. Now think about this: if you can evoke this kind of feeling in those who know you, then why are you sometimes so afraid of social contact? Why are you still afraid to open up?

People who accumulate injuries and fixate on this will find it very difficult to focus their attention on the group we are talking about. If this is your situation (or someone you know) then I urge you to change your perspective. I ask you to also listen to the people who love you and respect you.

Also, think about what would have happened if many of the amazing people you have met even chose to protect themselves to avoid injury. You did not like their company.

Because it is a pleasure to care about the people who see us as important. Because it’s a pleasure to be with those who improve our lives and who we care about. These feelings strengthen our inner world. They remove the need for a wall that hijacks all forms of communication with others.

No one has a greater influence on our lives than those we want by our side when we feel happy, sick, melancholy or have anxiety about going to a new place. This is what we mean by living life in the company of others and not debating the meaning of one’s existence in solitude. That’s what it means to move forward with openness and learn that there are people who are temporary. But also that some people make our path easier. People who carry us in their arms and make us feel like we can fly.

Focus your attention on the right group of people and those who know you. This is not about who gets the most points, but it is about multiplying the good experiences. We should not focus our attention on the people who have let us down when we trusted them.

The best card in your hands was given by people who motivated you (and still do) to move forward and never the people who let you down. Focus your attention on the things that improve your life and that play a role for you.

You have your own rules and other people’s rules may be different. But do not let their influence influence your judgment. If you are the judge, do not leave room for cheating and betrayal. Do not exclude the testimony of those who know you and love you. Dangers arise in life, but also successful occasions.